K. Flay – "The President Has a Sex Tape" (2017)

The President has a sex tape

Your daughters aren’t safe at night!

I don’t know how Instagram’s algorithm works, and I don’t really want to know.

What I do know is that it feeds me a LOT of Family Feud videos.

I haven’t watched Family Feud on TV in many, many years.  But based on the snippets from the show that Instagram sends to me, it’s clear that people haven’t gotten any smarter since Steve Harvey took over the show from John O’Hurley, who took it over from Richard Karn, who took it over from Louie Anderson, who took it over from Ray Combs, who took it over from Richard Dawson, who was the host when Family Feud first came on the air in 1976.  

Steve Harvey

(Yes, you read that right – Family Feud has been around for FIFTY YEARS!)

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The families who were on the Family Feud episode I saw on Instagram today are clearly among the dumbest people in the entire U. S. of A.  

Although they might not been as dumb as the women who answered “A funeral” when Harvey asked her to name an occasion where people take a lot of photographs.  (Weddings, birthdays, vacations, and family reunions were the correct answers.)

Click here to watch the Family Feud segment I watched today, which featured this question: “If all the U.S. presidents were alive, single, and ready to mingle, who would you date?” 

The contestant who rang in first – an older African-American woman – responded “Barack Obama.”  (In her dreams!)

But the hugely-pregnant player from the other team topped her by giving the #1 answer – John F. Kennedy.

(I was not surprised that Kennedy was the choice of 41 of the 100 people who were surveyed – younger people may not have chosen him, but he would be a runaway winner if you asked women of my generation.)

The next two contestants answered “Abe Lincoln” and “George Washington,” which were #4 and #5 on the list of correct answers.  

I seriously doubt that any woman today would really want to date Abe or George, although they were both over six feet tall (which is important for many women) – I’m guessing they were picked because they’re the first two men that people think of when they’re asked to name Presidents.

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The next contestant stunned Harvey by answering “Madison.”  

James Madison – our fourth President – was kind of a big deal.  He is known as the “Father of the Constitution” thanks to his role in drafting that document and getting the states to ratify it.  He also persuaded Thomas Jefferson – who he served as Secretary of State – to move ahead with the Louisiana Purchase.

But at five feet four inches tall, Madison was our shortest President.  In fact, he was the only President who was shorter than his wife:

Dolley Madison was three inches
 taller than her husband

I’m sorry, but there are very few women out there interested in dating a guy who’s only five-foot-four.  Not surprisingly, Madison was not on the Family Feud list. 

The team picked up a second strike when the next family member answered “George Bush.”  Although that answer turned out to be wrong, it wasn’t a bad choice strategy-wise because there are TWO George Bushes.  So the team had two shots to win with that answer, not just one.

The next contestant to answer pulled her team’s chestnuts out of the fire by answering “Bill Clinton.”  Clinton barely made the list – only two of the people surveyed picked him.  

That surprised me – I figured he would rank higher.  Several women I know who were introduced to Clinton at political events in Washington admitted to me that they got a little weak in the knees during those encounters.

Maybe the wording of the question confused them.  The question asked you to name a President who was “single and ready to mingle.”  Clinton is not single, of course, but he is clearly ready to mingle at the drop of a hat.

It turns out that the #3-ranked answer to the question was “Ronald Reagan.”  Reagan was a good-looking former movie star, and had a winning personality.  But I figured that his politics might disqualify him from consideration by a lot of women.  Also, he was our oldest President – I assumed that his age was work against him.  (After all, the Presidents who ranked #1 and #2 on the Family Feud list were the two youngest to hold that office.

I found it very encouraging that so many of the women surveyed picked a man who was 77  years old when he left office as the President they would most like to date.

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The pressure was on the next contestant – there was only one name left on the list of correct answers, and if she didn’t pick the right President, the other team would have a chance to win.

At first blush, the man she named  – Robert Kennedy – was an excellent response.  RFK was youthful, good-looking, and came from a wealthy family.  

There was just one problem with the answer.  ROBERT KENNEDY WAS NEVER PRESIDENT.

BZZZZZ! 

That gave the other team a chance to steal the win.  But the team member whose turn it was to answer gave an even more puzzling response: “Benjamin Franklin.”

Franklin was one of the most important of our Founding Fathers, but he never sought the Presidency.  When voters went to the polls in 1788 to elect the first President, Franklin was 82 years old – and in failing health to boot.  Like most people – but not all, as recent history demonstrates – he had the self-awareness to realize that someone as old and frail as he was had no business running for President.

If he had ever been President, old Ben would have been a good bet to make the Family Feud list.  Franklin never married, so he certainly met the “single and ready to mingle” test.  And while he certainly didn’t look like a ladies’ man, appearances can be deceiving. 

Appearances can be deceiving!

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Unlike some men, Franklin didn’t limit himself to women younger than he was – he appreciated des femmes d'un certain âge.

In fact, in a letter titled “Advice to a Friend on Choosing a Mistress,” Franklin identified a number of advantages to older paramours – among other things, they are better conversationalists, are less likely to become pregnant, and exhibit “greater prudence in conducting an intrigue.”

Ben went on to offer an explicit evaluation of the physical advantages and disadvantages of high-mileage mistresses:

The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one.  And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement.

I’m convinced!

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So who was the last President on the Family Feud list?  Good ol’ Thomas Jefferson – our third President.

Like Franklin (not to mention Clinton and JFK), Jefferson was a big fan of extramarital sex.  We’ll have more to say about Jefferson’s famous affair with one of his slaves, Sally Hemings, in the next 2 or 3 lines.

In the meantime, click here to enjoy “The President Has a Sex Tape,” which was released by K. Flay in 2017.

Click here to buy “The President Has a Sex Tape” from Amazon.

Alannah Myles – "Black Velvet" (1989)

Mississippi in the middle of a dry spell

Jimmie Rodgers on the Victrola up high

I recently learned that Sandra Day O’Connor – who became the first female member of the Supreme Court in 1981 – was confirmed by a 99-0 vote.

Can you imagine a Supreme Court justice being unanimously confirmed today?

Sandra Day O’Connor

The two newest Supreme Court justices were confirmed by much narrower margins.  Ketanji Brown Jackson, who was nominated by Joe Biden in 2022, was confirmed by a 53-47 vote.  Every Democratic senator voted in favor of confirming her, while almost every GOP senator went the other way.  (Three Republicans did cross party lines to vote for her.) 

The vote on Amy Coney Barrett, who was nominated by Donald Trump in 2020, was even closer.  She was confirmed by a 52-48 vote – every single Republican senator save one voted yes, while every Democrat voted no. 

I would bet dollars to doughnuts that the votes on future Supreme Court justices will resemble the close votes on Jackson and Barrett rather than the unanimous vote in favor of O’Connor.  

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I noted above that only one Republican senator failed to vote to confirm Amy Coney Barrett to the Supreme Court.

That one Republican senator was Susan Collins of Maine, who was also one of the only three Republicans who voted to confirm Ketanji Brown Jackson, a liberal justice appointed by Joe Biden.

Collins is up for re-election this year, and her opponents are hammering her because she voted to confirm Brett Kavanaugh when Trump nominated him to the Supreme Court in 2018.  “A vote for Collins is a vote for Trump,” they say, “and a vote against reproductive rights.”

Susan Collins always has been pro-choice.  (In 2022, she introduced a bill to codify Roe v. Wade after that decision was overturned by the Supreme Court.)  

And she is arguably the most independent member of the U.S. Senate – she recently reaffirmed the independence she demonstrated by voting against Amy Coney Barrett and in favor of Ketanji Brown Jackson when she announced a few days ago that she would not vote to confirm Trump’s nominee for Attorney General.  

But independence is no longer seen as a desirable quality for a politician.  Neither is bipartisanship.  (Collins has consistently been ranked as the most bipartisan member of the Senate.  She voted with Presidents Obama and Biden as much as she voted with President Trump.)  

And heaven help candidates who are viewed as moderates.  Extremism is clearly preferred in both parties these days.  (The American Conservative Union gives Collins a 46% score when it comes to being conservative, while the American for Democratic Action – a liberal group – rates her as 45% liberal.  That’s about as middle-of-the-road as it’s possible to be.) 

Give her votes on the Barrett and Jackson nominations – not to mention her support of the two liberal Supreme Court justices nominated by President Obama – it’s ironic indeed that the consistently moderate and pro-choice Collins is being criticized for her Kavanaugh vote and painted as a Trump supporter.  But most politicians wouldn’t recognize irony if it bit them in the behind.   

Forget it, Jake – it’s politics.   

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Please don’t misunderstand my point today.  I’m not saying you should vote for Susan Collins or against her – there are perfectly reasonable arguments on both sides of that debate, and it’s up to Maine voters to decide which are more compelling. 

But as an aficionado of irony, I couldn’t resist pointing out such a juicy example of it.  Although the more I think about it, the more I wonder if the appropriate term for what I wrote about above is hypocrisy rather than irony.

According to Psychology Today columnist Jeremy Sherman, “Hypocrisy means contradicting ourselves, being inconsistent, and talking out of both sides of our mouths. But that’s also what irony means. What then distinguishes hypocrisy from irony?”

That’s a good question.  Hypocrisy and irony both involve a disparity between words and deeds.  Some have distinguished the two by saying that while all hypocrisy has an ironic element, but not all irony involves hypocrisy.

I’ll stick with my choice of irony.  But if you think hypocrisy is the more accurate term to use here, be my guest.

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A final note: if you choose to comment on this post, PLEASE don’t accuse me of being MAGA or supporting baby-killing or other such BS.  

That’s especially true if you’re someone I know.  I get along just fine with my fellow basketball referees, and the people I meet at trivia, and the people I take bike trips with – until they start talking about politics.  Occasionally someone has something thoughtful to say on that subject, but most of the people I hear talking about politics immediately prove themselves to be dumbasses.  

I want to like everyone I meet – I really do.  But it’s hard to like someone you don’t respect because they’re a dumbass.

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Today’s featured recording hit #1 on the Billboard “Hot 100” in 1989, but the first time I heard it was at my local grocery store last week.

“Black Velvet” pays tribute to Elvis Presley.  Fortunately, it sounds nothing like an Elvis record.

Click here to listen to “Black Velvet.”

Click here to buy that recording from Amazon. 

Dave Dee, Dozy, Beaky, Mick & Tich – "Hold Tight" (1966)

Girl, you suit me for size

Forget the other guys!

I recently stumbled across a 1992 segment from Late Night with David Letterman that featured five elementary school kids telling jokes to Letterman.  Click here if you want to watch it.  (Trust me, you do.)

[NOTE: Did you remember that Letterman’s show was still on NBC in 1992?  Late Night first appeared in 1982, replacing Tom Snyder’s Tomorrow Coast to Coast program in the 12:30 am time slot following Johnny Carson’s Tonight Show.  Letterman expected to take Carson’s place as the Tonight Show host when Carson retired in 1991, but that job was given to Jay Leno instead.  As a result, Letterman took his show – renamed Late Show with David Letterman – to CBS in 1993.]

My favorite joke from that Late Night segment was the one told by Leonard, a sixth-grader who appears about seven and a half minutes into the segment:

Leonard: What is the difference between a snowman and a snow woman?

Letterman:  I have no idea.

Leonard:  Snowballs!

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Last Sunday, my daughter hosted a 10th birthday party for my oldest grandson, Jack.  Also in attendance were Jack’s two oldest cousins, Tommy (who is nine years old) and Sully (who is eight).

Jack at age two

I couldn’t wait to tell them Leonard’s snowballs joke – in front of my daughter, of course!

My grandsons LOVED the joke.  I’m hoping that they tell it to all their friends when school starts later this month.   

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A couple of weeks ago, I brought Tommy to one of my weekly trivia games.  Tommy is a smart kid, and he knows more than I do about certain topics.  For example, he knows everything there to know about the 2026 World Cup, and he’s an expert on flags as well.

Unfortunately, we didn’t have any questions about the World Cup or flags that night.  But a couple of weeks later, the final question – which, like the final question on Jeopardy, is the most important one of the game – was about flags.

Here’s the question:

Situated fewer than 1000 miles apart, which two European nations – whose names contain the same number of letters – use national flags depicting a map of the country itself?

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Do you have any idea what the correct answer to that question is?  I didn’t think so.

Don’t feel bad – we had no idea what the answer was either.  As a result, we finished second instead of first.

When I posed the final question to Tommy after Jack’s birthday party, he didn’t hesitate. “Kosovo and Cyprus,” he said.

The flags of Kosovo and Cyprus

And he was right.  Which means that my dominant trivia team had a seven-week winning streak broken because we were missing my nine-year-old grandson.

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We’ve never had a trivia question about Dave Dee, Dozy, Beaky, Mick & Tich.  But I’ll be ready for it if we ever do.

Dave Dee, Dozy, Beaky, Mick & Tich had no fewer than eight top ten hits in the UK.  They sold a lot of records in Australia, New Zealand, South Africa, Belgium, Germany, and the Netherlands as well.  But they never had a hit in the U.S.

Click here to read about Dave Dee, Dozy, Beaky, Mick & Tich.

Click here to listen to “Hold Tight,” a #4 hit single in the UK and Germany in 1966.  It’s featured on the soundtrack of Quentin Tarantino’s 2007 film, Death Proof – that’s where I first heard it.

Click here to buy “Hold Tight” from Amazon.